To begin with....

To begin with... FAITH
You cannot say that you have faith if when you fall you give up. Faith means you will be given the strength to rise, or the and to be lifted up. But don't lie there waiting. God provides for the smallest bird, but He doesn't trow the seed into the nest. They were created to fly.

To begin with ... HOPE
Trust that in all things there is hope. Even when we cannot see the opportunity, there it is in the out stretched hand, the listening ear, the smiling face, the sunrise.

To begin with ... LOVE
If you cannot see love in your life perhaps you need to put life in your love. Begin by accepting who you are and all you can be. This confidence will give you the power to love outside yourself. Love is not until it is given away.

To begin with ... FRIENDSHIP
If you want to have friends, be one! Sometimes friendship, like love, appears one sided. Sometimes people need more than they give. Trust that in doing for another the act is the gift you give yourself.

To begin with ... THE PRESENT
Where you are at the moment is a result of where you havee been. We only have the past and the present. No one is guaranteed tomorrow. Learn from yesterday and begin anew with the Present.

to begin with ... LOSS
Succumb to the feelings of loss. The heart cannot heal until pain is acknowledged. Tears are not a sign of weakness but an acceptance of the reality, a release for the bereaved.

FAITH, HOPE, LOVE and FRIENDSHIP will be your strength in the PRESENT… even in LOSS there is much to be gained…To begin with…